Did you sing the last line before you saw it? If so, you are probably a native Texan...or have lived with one!
My friend Leanne taught next door to me all 3 years in the Philippines and just next to the door that separated our classrooms was my Texas map! Honestly, when I prepared to move to another country, I considered that my primary identification would need to be "American" not "Texan". But it turned out that I just couldn't really get away from it. And truly - if you've said "y'all" for 26 years of life it is REALLY HARD to stop saying it! :) So you might as well embrace it. I tell people that my time abroad introduced me to the Filipino culture, the Korean culture (25% of our students), the missionary culture, and to other parts of the USA culture! As I learned to love people from California, the Northwest, the Midwest and ....Yankees (!) I enjoyed learning about different customs that reign in our wonderful country.
But home will always be Texas.
And last week, Leanne entrusted her vacation into my hands to try to convey to her what was so special about this Great State of mine. Well, here are some glimpses of what we saw and did:
I did warn her July was not our best tourist month...but it was what worked. This was my car dashboard one day....and yes, I think the 2 numbers are connected!! :)
She was thrilled to hear someone say "the car is over yonder".
Yes, we do say things like that.
Bugs as big as your fingers!! They seemed to love her :)
My pastor is a pyrotechnics-maniac - but it was a great show
(and a volunteer fire dept was on hand since we were under a burn ban!)
A short tour of town and my current workplace....and then on to Kilgore!
And some of the best ribs in Texas - or so Texas Monthly says. Pictures of Larry Hagman, Toby Keith and President Bush, Sr. inside this....well, it's a bit of a honky-tonk. But amazing ribs.
Just to show my small town (11,000+) has diversity, it also hosts (with Kilgore College's help) an incredible Shakespeare Festival (for 26 years) which pulls actors and crew from around the country to hot East Texas for 2 months each summer to provide top-notch culture for us. Since Leanne is an English teacher, a night with "Hamlet" was appropriate.
So - she heard that water towers provide the needed water pressure required for flushing toilets. In her part of Washington, the mountains provide the required gravity/force. "Fascinated" would be a polite word for her attention to our Texas water towers - but it does capture where she went! Here are a couple shots.
This one is right by my parent's church: a new experience for Leanne to attend a Church of Christ.
My attempt to copy a fancy picture in the auction at the Shakespeare festival. Looking up from underneath an oil derrick. There are 24 or so in downtown to document the heritage of the oil boom of the 30s. At one time, the "world's richest acre" was inside Kilgore and there were 1200 derricks!
To document that part of our history, the college has the East Texas Oil Museum - a must see for anyone in the Kilgore area. It "recreates" a boom town and does a creative job of teaching about that time period.
Well, part of Texas is being with the people and Leanne was gracious to spend time with many of the most important people in my life - like my parents and a real-life "Me-Ma" :) Mom even made chicken adobo - one of our favorite Filipino dishes.
Our drive back to the DFW area became a bit scenic as we detoured to see the Ranger's Ballpark and Cowboys Stadium - both impressive in their own right.
On to Sundance Square in downtown Ft. Worth where our west "begins" and the cattle drives still exist (although we didn't stand in the heat to watch them this time!)
A "green" cow :)
One of my favorite statues in the area resides in the 2-storied Barnes & Noble. I love how it captures the larger-than-life cowboy spirit.
More BBQ to celebrate 4th of July and time with my friend Katie and some of her family.
My friend Leanne finally got to meet my SIL Leigh Ann! And of course, Jason & Holt :)
So glad we got a chance to eat lunch with them.
On to downtown Dallas and the grassy knoll....
...and the 6th Floor Museum in the Texas Book Depository where JKF was shot from (if you believe what they tell you!) It's a great museum, sobering but thought-provoking. And yes, that's a walking boot she has on - another excuse we used to stay indoors and low walking as much as possible :)
But, of course, I wanted to take her to the San Antonio Riverwalk!!
Too bad it's 6+ hours from DFW. So we settled on a nice "copy" in the lobby of the Gaylord Texan Hotel.
Riverside mosaic tables with good (& reasonably priced) Mexican food, colorful umbrellas, and a bridge - they really did a great job recreating the spirit of the Riverwalk. And bonus - it's all inside with A/C!! My friend Jenni was our gracious host in Dallas and participated in our cheesy outing.
I had never seen sopapillas presented in this beautiful way (butter & honey in the glass) plus Leanne had never had them before. Love to share the "good things" in life with friends!
And you can get your picture with a Longhorn! :)
So our last day in town was spent on fairly random things -but fun. We had read in the Dallas paper that on July 4, 1776, the Continental Congress sent the finished Declaration of Independence to a printer who made 200 copies and sent them to the colonies. The original was signed a month later. Of the 200 copies, only 26 exist and one is on the 7th floor of the central Dallas public library location in downtown! It's a beautiful (& free) exihibit....
...just down the hall from several high school yearbook pictures of famous Dallas-area-ites.
Like Luke & Owen Wilson :)
In Grapevine is the only statue dedicated specifically to the pilots and flight crew of the 4 planes that crashed on 9-11-01. It's a lovely statue and a beautiful tribute to those who died doing their jobs. I had driven by before but never stopped to read. In 2001, when I heard the towers had been hit by planes, I was teaching 2nd period 8th graders just a few miles from this statue and their first question was "what airline were the planes?" because so many families in the area were connected to American Airlines. It's another one of those "where were you" moments in our history and this is where I was.
And finally, my favorite DFW sculpture - the Mustangs in Las Colinas. Little did I know, in the building to the left there is a small "musuem" with a 14-min video of how the statues were made and it was pretty enlightening. If you're in the area, it's worth it (and they validate your parking, too). Once again, the oversized mustangs representing the wild mustangs that used to roam that area show a Texas spirit of power, strength and maybe a bit of the un-tamed drive we seem to value so much.
Because I knew we would be driving a lot, I created a Texas "BINGO" card for Leanne to look for things - many unique to Texas - and to help point out some of our pride. We quickly saw the TX flag flying at the same height as the US flag - something only our state can do (since we were once a republic). She pointed out we do use our flag as decoration quite a bit. Each of the houses she stayed in had some TX decorations and/or flags flying. I tried to explain the UT-A&M rivalries when we saw their insignias on cars...and curbs. How do you really explain that, though? We saw "longhorn" and "lone star" on all sorts of things. And of course, even a few people wearing cowboy hats and boots :)
Her words in an email back to me after she got home were: "I now understand at least SOME of the pride in Texas! I'm not sure ANY state can or will ever compare to Texas' pride!"
Well, as a Texan, I take this as a compliment (whether it was intended that way or not!) and consider my job as tour guide well done if she picked up even a touch of the love Texans have for their state.
Yeah, sometimes we're just crazy and the pride goes a little too far.
But it's still "Texas, Our Texas" and it's Home, Sweet Home.
Thanks for coming Leanne - try again in one of our few months that's not scalding: October's got our great State Fair and March has our beautiful bluebonnets. Thanks for letting me brag on my home.